So, I've been doing some surprising soul-searching lately. Well, maybe not soul, exactly, since I've been thinking over my past behavior and having it suddenly appear to me in a completely different light -- but there isn't the term "behavior-thinking-over" or even anything that resembles it, is there?Okay. I know I've mentioned one of my colleagues in my new job, who is 23, and feels very top-of-her-game all the time. Has always viewed herself as the smartest person in the room, with the best singing voice, and the most beautiful hair. And although I can see this very clearly, I have still felt kindly toward her, and sort of amusedly tolerant of this childishness.